I had a haircut today... but before sitting in the stylist chair, I needed to "spend some pennies" (aka pee).
As I flushed in the small, tastefully decorated, one bowl room, I noticed a can of air freshener on the back of the toilet tank.
It was called Gentle Moments.
Generally anything in my life requiring air freshener is about as far opposite as you can get from a gentle moment....
And now you have a wee glimpse into some things crossing, flashing, transmitting and jumping across my brain synapses and neurons etc.
I'm so sorry for you...