A couple of clinics ago, I was talking with the barn owner about this woman riding in the clinic. She is a tall woman and she is always on these teeny, tiny client horses. We were talking about how she needs a BIG horse to really fill out her legs, stature etc. Not in a mean way - and the woman riding has also said this. The barn owner said this woman had a couple of larger horses of her own but they each ended up with severe lameness issues and she gave them away to good homes.
I was like ???wha??? how did she give lame horses away? I have a perfectly sound horse at home that is ready to go for someone and I can't find him a home to save my life!
We started talking about Rosso... he moves well, athletic...however, he is very much a reactive/nervous horse and I don't appreciate that but know someone could have a lot of fun with him if they were a strong, assertive rider.
This barn owner thought she might have a couple people interested in him... so the next clinic date I brought Sera and Rosso down. And yes he screamed like a ninny the entire time from the stall/run we put him in. Fun. He hasn't been ridden since spring... and he hasn't been many places... his eyes were pretty much bugged out of his head...
When the girl interested in Rosso showed up... she got him out, tied him up... I saddled him for her... lunged him in the indoor... the barn owner got on him... and while MY heart was in my throat, he was fine. He had an objection about something - she yelled at him, stayed on and resumed without another objection. He rounded up beautifully, sweat between his back legs and flanks (horses sweat where they are working) and the barn owner kept exclaiming how sensitive he was to her seat and weight - how light in the hand he was - how big his movement was... I think he has better movement than Sera does and is more athletic and eye-catching. I know everyone was surprised. He is very pretty and uses himself well.
You think "free" horse and you think puke horse. Rosso isn't a puke... but I really don't appreciate his mind. I know someone would have a lot of fun with him but it isn't me.
Lemme put it this way.
If he was a human, he would wear black turtlenecks, skinny jeans, eyeliner and read poetry on open mike night with a very effeminate voice and possibly a lisp. If anyone looked sideways at him, he'd run dramatically sobbing, eyeliner streaming down his face, to the bathroom and he'd lock himself in there the rest of the night.
Not that there is anything wrong with someone like that. God love 'em.
I just don't happen to appreciate those qualities in a 1,000lb animal I'm sitting on.
Then the girl who was interested rode Rosso. The whole time he is screeching to Sera and Sera is screeching right back... but dang, he was GOOD. He didn't do anything horrible, he listened, he did his job... he was worked hard, in a new place, by two different people, with his one and only pasture mate screeching to him... and he hasn't been worked or had anyone on him since March or April of 2011. It was the 2nd week in December of 2011.
I was hopeful.
He stayed on a 30 day trial.
I got home with my lovely Sera Sue... unloaded her and then felt sad. Which suprised me. I suppose when you care for an animal for 5 years there are attachments formed, even if you don't love exactly everything about them. And it didn't help that Sera kept calling for him and looking for him... and when the girl got him out to groom him he buried his fretful head into my chest like - omg! save me!
I felt like the big, mean, carnivore.
Not to mention I watched him go and he was pretty - I saw all the things that I loved about him and the reasons I brought him home in the first place. It's hard to let it go and know you weren't good enough to get past it.
My crazy neighbor Mrs. Kravitz asked me last week if I'd be mad if the girl showed up at a show and beat me and Sera?
No! I'd be really happy actually!
Mrs. Kravitz said she'd be mad enough for both of us then if that were to happen. chuckle. She does love me and means well even if she is a little (or a lot) crazy.
I got an e-mail today from the barn owner. He is still being a good boy, no shennanigans and yet the girl interested is also intimidated by his nervousness. The barn owner reports that she'll warm Rosso up for the girl, walk, trot, canter - lots of transitions and the girl rides him but she won't ride him without the barn owner around. That is what I thought might happen. He needs a strong, assertive rider that he won't question. The girl didn't seem to have that take charge personality when I watched her ride but I hoped I was wrong.
It's ok... I want him to find a good fit. I love the big goof and I don't want to see him (or another person) in a bad situation. I have another clinic on the 28th and it's my guess that he'll be coming home with me to resume his status as a fully sound, capable horse that gets to be a pasture ornament/buddy to my wonderful mare.
Dang.
That's a pretty damn good job if you can get it when you are a horse! Especially in this horse market....
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I totally relate. Be confident that the right home is out there. i have felt what you are feeling.
ps- im still reading, just cant comment from my ipad.
Your still in charge and you still say yes or no..so keep that in mind. I hope it works out and they bond and it ends up a perfect fit. A job with a good keeper is all a horse could ask for. I bet you did feel mixed emotions, but you sure gotta love Mrs. Kravitz's straight forwardness don't ya? That is funny!
The vibe is in the air. Stay on track. The right person is coming.
Oh and...
Merry Christmas, Girlie!
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